Insecure about my bf 
please helppp?I need answers.?
I’m dating this guy, dakota, and we were friends for awhile before we started going out. We started going out about a month ago, and since then things have been going great, but I get upset with him so easily. I think its because before we were dating he was a HUGE flirt and he already told me he flirts with girls subconciously and that the only reason he told me that is because he wants me to trust him. I have a hard time trusting people and I get very insecure, I try to stop it but its not easy. Usually he calls or texts me every night, and never skips, but somebody found out that we are dating that we didn’t really want that person to know. That was today, and its 9:03 pm and he stilll hasn’t called. This is where the insecurity kicks in. I feel like he’s mad at me. I KNOW I’m over reacting, you don’t have to tell me. How can I overcome this insecurity and stop over-reacting and sweating the small stuff?
That sucks but it is a double-edged sword. If your b/f is a guy with lots of qualities that made him popular, you were attracted to that but other people are too. You have your head on straight; you know you’re overreacting but it sometimes isn’t that easy if you are involved with someone! I think you need to take a deep breath and just take it day to day. Just keep your eyes open- if he’s yours and faithful you should feel more secure with time. If you suspect he’s up to any “tricks” then show him the curb. But if things are going well like you say they are… enjoy it! You are still in the most fun part of the relationship, that “new phase.”